To become is to surrender into the flow of life. When you become, life draws to you what you always yearned for.
It is not about first getting what you want and then becoming. You first need to go through the transition phase. You have to allow yourself to experience the discomfort of the birthing canal as the transition spaces touches you. You need to start trusting that your inner knowing will guide you through the dark and risk surrendering into the invisible hands that are waiting (and have always waited) to hold you on the other side.
To become is to be with the messiness in the seasonality of life. When you give yourself permission to do that and stay with the process, the light on the other side surprise you. You open your eyes and you see, as if for the first time, the arrival of you in this body. You realise that you gave birth to a cyclical process of renewal of which each renewal is a shedding of a previous becoming.
Life is the container for growth. Like the seasonality of nature your becoming is seasonal. Your deep yearnings the remembrance of previously shed inner callings.